Thursday, May 26, 2005

World wide wrip off

you pay your money . . .

It's amazing, when it comes to the topic of web hosting, how difficult it can be to host your site.

My website, link on the right, is my first try at a website. When I started it I contacted the hosting company to check they were ok with it. They were, so I paid my dues and got on with learning all about dreamweaver and video downloads.

That was almost a year ago, but with one thing and another, the site did not 'go live' until just before christmas.

Since then the site has been attracting quite a few hits, but I never realised how many.

Until now.

I have paid for some basic stats to enable me to keep tracks on things - and see if i am indeed using a huge amount of bandwith and attracting lots of visitors.

But I did this for a reason

and that reason was the poor service i had from my hosts, as they pulled my site one day with no warning what so ever.

It was a friend who alerted me to the fact my site was down. I thought nothing of it, as there have been minor server problems before. But when I tried to log in to my own site, nothing. After contacting them, and waiting four days for a reply I was informed my site had been pulled. I was shocked, amazed that this could happen without being notified by my host provider, and furious it had happened at all.

Eventually, some seven days after the site went down, I won the right to reinstate it. It turned out that the high number of visitors to the site had caused problems. This was an outrage as I had a contract for unlimited bandwidth and usage. Once I threatened to sue the company in question, I won the argument. But as one final protest, it took them another week to reinstall my site.

During this down time for the site, something else happened. A good friend who runs a similar site, and who very kindly gave me lots of advice, tips and time when I developed my site made an offer.

The offer was to put my site on his server. This webdid, and a few days laterbthe same fatevwas bestowed on his site as had been inflicted upon mine the week earlier.

This was bad news, as jis site had been succesful for a number of years, and had never experienced such a problem. I felt bad.

It now transpires that after various emails, his site has been permanently pulled. I don’t quite understand the in's and out's, or understand why he can't rectify the problem and revert back to the way it was, but the site is still down to this day.

I am very sorry this happened, not that any fault or responsibility falls on me.

It just amazes me that host companies can mess around so much after someone has paid their money. They seem to be able to do as they like, unchallenged.

Well, with a house move fast approaching, I am looking to maybe have an online server at home, and bypass these idiots and host those sites and thus cut out all the crap.

Sunday, May 15, 2005

Bomb Diggy

Well - after having one of those memories where I see things once then have to hunt it down - and wont let go without finding it, I found it!!!!!!

I saw a video on MTV quite some time ago - and luckliy I knew who it was and what the song was called - but could I find a copy of the video - no chance. Until now. Thanks to the joys of Ebay and buying a cd single with a video on it.

Let me tell you why its so cool

It features four band members doing a dance routine, and to "toughen" them up they have gone for a cyber / industrial feel for the video.

One lucky guy gets to wear a rubber straightjacket like a normal jacket. They just cut two small slits at wrist level to let his hands poke through the sleeves so he could use them, but still give the jacket the great look it has.

I suppose one of my major fascinations is seeing fetish gear outside the dark and dingy world of the home, where most people get to photograph them. Seeing gear that excites you in the real world, in a situation almost considered normal is stunning for me. And we need more of it. I have been to some fetish parties, but I think if I continue to attend I will run the risk of developing more and more outragous outfits as my perception of the fetish world in open view becomes the norm.




So - its given me a thought - as I like to go to fetish parties, I may have to get a rubber straightjacket just like it - as its the perfect style etc - and do the same - how cool would that be to complete an outfitfor a party. And if it was done right, you could alsways put the hands back inside the sleeves and use it as a straightjacket whilst at the party.

It's great to see how much fun creating a music video can give people. There is another stunning video out there - so if anybody who reads this has a copy of a Skunk Ansie video for the cong Charity - then please let me know. That video features the star in a rubber straightjacket, tied to the front of a car as it drives through town - very stylish and great on the eyes.

Wednesday, May 11, 2005

Rubber drysuit fun

Well - with nobody home and the evening with no major jobs to do - I endulged myself in some rubber fun

I took my black rubber dry suit from expectations - covered the inside with j lube, donned some elbow gloves and got myself all sealed into the rubber. Topped off with a good rubber hood, and a gas mask that was on and off most of the evening - it was great fun.

Needless to say after a couple of hours the sweat was building up, reacting with the j lube and creating a strange slipperyness (no such word but it sounds good) to the suit. I did not help when I needed to go to the toilet, but instead of getting out, I peed in the suit. Now that made things very slippy.

It didnt take me long to work myself up into a laver !! so to speak and gave myself a great climax.

It was just as much fun getting out of the suit, slipping around everywhere in the shower whilst getting out. Word of caution, be very careful, as most of the goo ends up by the feet, so slipping is very easy - be careful if you try this too.

Well, that was fun. The suit is good, though not entirley water tight, so I did have some leaks that the towel on the seat caught!! I think next time I will have to put my red and black viking dry suit over the top of the othger suit - now that will keep things in !!

until next time, cant wait

Monday, May 09, 2005

How hot?

Well, my blog inspired my girlfriend.

After donning three bike suits and a rubber hood, she chained me up using lots of chain and padlocks.

Ten out of ten for effort, two out of ten for making sure I could not escape.

After threatening to leave me stew for an hour, I was downstairs reading kinky websites within minutes.

I think she felt dissapointed. She tried, and with a few tips and tricks she will get there. The fact that she wanted to tie me up was good enough for me.

But after surfing for another half hour in all the gear, I was warm and ready to try again. This time, with a bit of guidance I was chained up so I could not stop her as she turned the vibrator on me and teased me to perfection.

It was good fun - but only when i came to take evrything off did i realise how hot it had been - i was drenched !!

Must give credit to my kinky girl though - hats off to her for trying - i will make sure she gets it right next time!!

Saturday, May 07, 2005

Outside SJ - how cool

Some cool pics





Hope the owner of these pics does not mind me showing them here - but i had to refer to them as they are brilliant.

Something I have always wanted to do - be in that gear outside - maybe one day. but how cool - just loosk so impressive. Hats off to him - brillant

Friday, May 06, 2005

Wish I rode a bike

Of late, I have been getting into bike waterproofs. The pvc type from belstaff and rukka, and thanks to the joys of ebay, I have managed to get some cheap suits and seperates which are great quality.

They are hot - literally, as when worn next to the naked skin, which is the only way to wear them, makes you sweat quite quickly. And as I enjoy layering up, wearing two or three suits together is very hot.

One day soon, I will gave to get some bits of chain, and lock the suits onto me with a few well placed padlocks. The idea of being locked into the suits, or any clothing for that matter is a huge turn on.

It would have to be just a few bits of chain - say one around the neck - even locking the padlock to the zip pull perhaps? maybe one around the waist? or maybe go one step further and put the chain and padlock combination inside the suit - so you lock it onto you - then close the suit - so the outside world cant see the padlocks and tell you are locked in. could be good - but would require some planning and thought

or maybe i go one step further and lock some heavy chains on with handcufs and leg cuffs - all padlocked on - so once the padlock gets put on - no escape untilt he keys show up! could be good - but need a day off for that =- something of a rariety at the moment !!

i did a video a while back for the site with one of my rukka bike suits. I demonstrated how its possible to get oneself into the leather straightjacket - and quite effectivley too !! so if you want to see the video for that - swing by the website.

First Blog - welcome to my world

Well - these are my ramblings, and i hope they either serve to humour me or anybody else that cares to read it.

As this is my first post, I will introduce myself and what i like

I am one kinky devil

Truth be told I have been kinky for a long time, but only have been giving this side of my life the time it deserves since december 2002. It was then that i decided to go for it, buy the gear, live the life and enjoy it to the fullest i could

not long after that i found something more valuable than gold dust

Somebody came into my life that allowed me to enjoy my kinky side with, and she has been a true shining light in my life

so much so that i cannot imagine my life without her in it now. we are engaged, buying a house and going from strength to strength

i love her dearly and with all my heart

soppy bit over with, and back to the main thing, ME
lol

So - what kind of fetishes do i have?
well - the list is long, and diverse. the good thing about it is that if ever i get sick of one thing, i can switch to other fetishes then come back to them later. it keeps everything fresh, even if it does confuse the girlgriend completely and make her question what mood i am in now! lol

so - what are they you ask

well - i have this thing for straightjackets
leather, rubber - they are the main interest - but also have a canvas one too

the thing i seem to like more than anything else is the look of bondage and fetish

for me to enjoy it - it has to look right.

being tied up in a flimsy hood and handcuffs just doesnt cut it

give me a leather straightjacket, leather jeans and aleather hood - and we are in business

so - as you can see - i like leather - from straight forward things like jeans and shirts through to hoods, sleepsacks and straightjackets etc

then there i rubber
i do love rubber

the feel of it - as you sweat and it starts to slip and slide over your body is a great feeling
i love catsuits, heavy suits, hoods sleepsacks, straightjackets, drysuits and most things rubber

as you will find out from coming blogs - i have a rubbery mind and love getting geared up in rubber often - the more layers the better !!

then there are other fetishes i have, like that of jackets (long story - will explain in an future blog), overalls and dungarees, shiny clothing, silver clothing and most other things that have a fetish theme. My theory is i will try anything twice!!

so - now my first blog is out of the way - i can adopt a more "this happened today" approach to blogging. The first one is always the hardest

so - until the next blog - bye for now